I was determined to explore the town, despite her warnings.
The Allure of Sorrento
Sorrento, a coastal town in southern Italy, has long been a magnet for tourists. Its picturesque setting, rich history, and stunning natural beauty make it an irresistible destination. The town’s unique blend of ancient ruins, charming streets, and breathtaking views of the Mediterranean Sea has captivated visitors for centuries. The town’s strategic location on the Amalfi Coast, where the sea meets the mountains, creates a dramatic landscape that is both rugged and serene. The stunning views of the Bay of Naples and the island of Capri make Sorrento a popular spot for photographers and nature lovers. The town’s rich history is evident in its many ancient ruins, including the Roman ruins of Villa Comunale and the medieval castle of Castel dell’Ovo.
The Reality of Sorrento
Despite its allure, Sorrento is not without its drawbacks. The town’s narrow streets and alleys can be crowded and overwhelming, especially during peak season. The heat and humidity can be intense, making it difficult to explore the town without feeling exhausted. The town’s popularity with tourists has led to a proliferation of souvenir shops, restaurants, and bars, which can make the town feel commercialized and overpriced. The narrow streets and alleys can be challenging to navigate, especially for those with mobility issues or young children. The town’s high prices for accommodations and food can make it difficult for budget-conscious travelers to enjoy the town.
My Experience in Sorrento
Despite my sister’s warnings, I was determined to explore Sorrento and experience its beauty for myself.
The main issue wasn’t the town itself (I do my best to curb my judgment towards places full of tourists, given I am one), but rather a mismatch between expectations and reality. I hadn’t researched whether I’d enjoy it and relied on Instagram-perfect posts. A week later, I found myself much further down the coast in Minori (and I’m reluctantly sharing this destination) and my dreams of an idyllic tiny Italian town, full of old men playing cards and women baking on the beach, were fulfilled. The difference? I poured hours into researching this second destination, combing through YouTube vlogs and diving into Reddit threads to find a spot that aligned with my desires. Travel’s unpredictability is part of the charm, but in 2025, I’ll spend more time researching both “hot spots” and lesser-known alternatives.
We had been together for 10 years, and our relationship was at a crossroads. We were both feeling stagnant and unsure about our future together.
The Power of Shared Experiences
We decided to take a break from our daily routines and embark on a journey together. The Sunshine Coast, with its stunning beaches, lush forests, and vibrant culture, seemed like the perfect destination to reignite our spark.
The Benefits of Domestic Getaways
Domestic getaways offer numerous benefits, including:
By choosing to stay within your own country, you can avoid the hassle and expense of international travel. Instead, you can focus on exploring the hidden gems of your own region.
Exploring New Horizons
One of the most significant advantages of domestic getaways is the opportunity to explore new horizons without breaking the bank.
I’m not saying one should pretend a trip to the Coromandel is just like visiting the beaches in Greece (although I’d argue some of our beaches are better). But next year I do want to sprinkle more domestic jaunts through the year rather than waiting for that “one big trip”. Snub tours or guided experiences My hesitation regarding pre-organised “cookie-cutter” travel experiences or group tours is no secret. Yet every time I take a tour, I’m surprised by how much more richness I can squeeze out of a destination, compared to when I skim its surface on my own. When my mother suggested paying $100 for a tour of the Parthenon in Athens, I scoffed. We weren’t history buffs and had even considered skipping it altogether. Thankfully, she convinced me and it’s become something I recommend all visitors to do. Alone, I could only have appreciated what I could see which, at an ancient attraction, is often crumbling buildings and dust. Our guide, however, brought each building and brick to life with rich stories and secret details. We experienced the same thing during a free walking tour the next day, where a local showed us things one can’t see (the storied past and complex culture) while we wandered through the streets.
But, I do believe that there are many benefits to structured travel, and I want to explore them in this article.
The Benefits of Structured Travel
Structured travel, also known as guided or organised travel, has been around for decades. It offers a unique set of benefits that cater to different types of travelers.
I want to be the one who asks for directions, who asks for recommendations, who asks for the local’s perspective on the place I’m visiting. I want to be the one who is genuinely curious and interested in the culture, history, and people of the place I’m visiting. I want to be the one who is willing to take the time to learn and understand the local way of life.
The Benefits of Being a Cringe Tourist
Being a cringe tourist has numerous benefits. Here are a few:
The Art of Asking Questions
Asking questions is a key part of being a cringe tourist. Here are a few tips to help you get started: